Abraham Hicks - someone I love to listen to her teachings.

Abraham Hicks - someone I love to listen to her teachings.

Special today , I remembered that I have this blog and start writing about life.
Happiness is a state of mind , its a feeling , is a satisfaction feeling , genuine and truthful from your heart and inner self.

I found my happiness. I in fact learnt that emotion is great detector to us . I am always okay to feel unhappy , and when I am unhappy , there are ways for me to focus on the happiness.
I find myself can finally understand that conditions are secondary .
What we want is already there . In fact what we are having is what we have manifested in the past.
I truly believe and understand the power of us to choose to focus .

And now, I find myself have been always happy , in fact more happiness than sadness.
What have I done?
1. I trust that life is good .
2. I found a good career
3. I met a good man and I am looking forward to start a new phase of life soon with him.
4. I am living with people I love
5. My skin got better . I in fact had done some clinical laser before ( costs me about sgd 2k) , and practice good habit for skincare. I love my skin now . Many people told me my skin looks shiny  and healthy. The laser is truly worthy.
6. In fact this 7 years , things changed a lot, I lost someone I loved the most, my dad. My beloved dad passed away and I had the urge to get back to my life again , to be strong . I learnt to practice the good thoughts from Abraham hicks and my inner self had got me to be better. My dad loves me dearly , I will live my life happily to make sure that my dad's love does not go in vain.
7. I broke up with my first bf , he was a bad person and I am truly grateful I had met such a lousy man at young age and learnt to know who worth my love.
8. I learnt a lot about my self worthiness and I am happy for everything I have in my life now.
9. I know that I am living the life I want and my life jeeps improving.
10. I know when I shall calm myself down , and be relax to allow things flow to me.

Happiness is a state of mind , when we meditate more , we get there, and soon things will draw to me , manifested .
It is proven right all the time .

Quote: Look around less, imagine more .Always choose love.

What is love?Love of something or of nothing?

When you have nothing , you strive for something, you try to love something. Something is thing you do not have . Pursuing something is because you do not have it , first thing for peace is to accept that you do not have it and your love over nothing.


posted on TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, 2009- and repost here

Diotima now shifts the locus of the discussion from the heavens to the human condition. Eros is to be seen as involved in that which is in between wisdom and ignorance. This is not a matter for the gods, since they possess wisdom (e.g., a knowledge of the Good and the Beautiful)(203e). But very few, if any, mortals have ever attained wisdom. Most men are ignorant and, further, ignorant of their ignorance (204a). However, some mortals are aware of their ignorance. That is to say, some mortals experience a lack within themselves (e.g., they are aware that they do not know Beauty and Goodness). On the basis of this lack, these mortals also experience a desire to gain such wisdom. They strive for wisdom and are called lovers of wisdom (204b).

what will one have to eventually possesses beautiful things? At this, Socrates is confused. Diotima replaces the notion of beauty with the notion of the good (GREEK) and Socrates answers that they who possess the good are happy (GREEK)(204e). Thus people desire the good because it will grant them happiness or well being (205a).

How do mortals, through Eros, pursue the good in order to secure their happiness? The answer initially provided shows that mortals seek to secure the object of their happiness through begetting or giving birth (GREEK) upon beautiful things, both in the physical and spiritual sense (206b). Now, this answer places a perspective upon the role of the beautiful. The beautiful is that upon which love grows (206e).

Eros strives for the twofold objects of immortality and the good and it does so through the beautiful (207a)

Philosophy? philosopher?Happiness is a thought

I always think a lot, I have to admit that. 


Everyone thinks. For those who could express in words; other people read it , understand it  , they feel it ,experience it, and finally an agreement is formed within them, people then call the person philosopher, like aristotle.  I always think philosopher is very tough to be , as at the end , in pursuit of the " meaning " of life , you end your life. 
I remember 4 years ago,I heard that there was a book that talks about philosophy of life, and after reading that book , many committed suicide including the author who was the philosopher. I do not say it is bad , as perhaps I can understand , after reading the book, they understand it , feel it, experience it, and finally meaning of life was pursued , they have achieved something within their mind , body and thought , and so they have nothing more to pursue, they end their life.


I myself enjoyed reading books with philosophical narratives .. I enjoyed last time , very much into it, but I often find myself not happy. Every detail expressed in words , passed through our belief , we interpret it , and we compare with our life experience , we agree and we ends up questioning and... at the end we could not get the final answer, we question again... yet nothing works... and the process is tough and continue to be tough , that is why people call it dwell over the past , dwelling on the things that sometimes have no " absolute" answer. .. Indeed , absolute cannot be applied in every event , every person and every thing. Miracle still exists that is why uniqueness exist in our planet. Without understanding it, confusion will persist ..and normally , in my case, sadness started to overpower and mind interpreted them with bad experiences. 


Right now , I could still think about philosophy if I want to interpret a thing , I can tell a long story about it , but honestly . In pursuit of " non absolute" answer, I became more "absolute" , I think in more practical and logical now, as I categorise thing , and reason them with an easy "answer" , and stop dwelling and questioning too much . To me , it may be called " faith" . Just believe it over single thing that you cannot understand yet you are still doing it. Believe it over single thing that comes to you and you are still facing it . The faith you create comes from the belief , and also perhaps " the easier thing you thought in practical and logical way". 


It might be hard to understand here but I explain in this way. When you are sad , you just have to put it in a simpler way that it is because you "choose " to be sad , and stop dwelling and questioning too much and as simple as it is. A philosopher may start to think that a sadness is because the connection of the current situation is not with the "mind". Body is not listening to the " mind" ... and why is the mind so detached? because of the detachment given by the body as mind distort the situation , or the situation distort the mind and body disconnect them ....etc.. blah blah.. and then continue to question what is the situation , mind , body etc... 


Philosophy is just a "thought" , as I said everyone is thinker , however philosopher 's ability is he explains a thing that has no absolute answer , but long narrative and facts, the answer can be only formed differently by people who interpret it. 


I am not a philosopher and I avoid being one of them too.
However , If I were to conclude here, I would say my philosophy of happiness is that happiness is a state of thought , it is easy to achieve if we just interpret as simple as it is. 

Hypnosis and Skin

I was finding some ways for  my skin healing.
After pityriasis rosea, even they are healed but many dark spots were left on my body.
I had very good skin when I was young, I do not know the reason why my skin problem seems to be geeting more prominent in these 5 years.
After acne, I got pityriasis, then I got ezcema somewhere. They are all not so severe as they were but , I wish to get a clearer skin as possible as I can.

First , I related my skin problems with my mind , that is because I was really under stress in my high school ,and university and I guess that could be main reason I got problems with my skin.

I believe hypnosis will help to speed up the whole body system to heal, as I read a book about sub conscious, it can be as powerful as it will control the whole body and make them to do things you may not expect . Talking to subconscious could strengthen our faith .

This is where I have got the script from , and I used my own voice and read through , record and adding some background music and soundtrack that I like to help me go deeper into the relaxation and imagination.
http://www.thehypnobustersblog.com/2010/04/self-hypnosis-script-for-better-skin.html

Best , I am really dertermineed to improve them !

Liver Cleanser : To be healthy

Here I am to share about my liver cleanser experience.

First , why did I do the liver cleanser?

As mentioned , I have rashes three times on and off recently. I have constipation and indigestion. 

If I sleep late at 2 or 3 am , my belly will be like a ball , bloating. I can hardly breathe , and talk, and at that time I will feel very annoyed and angry , bad tempered . Only until I sleep , the problem is resolved . I know that everyone could have this if sleeping very late , but honestly , I must say that, my case is kinda serious.I believe I have damaged a lot my gastric and liver . 

This is the link to understand more about your liver :-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dD05neSu2wo&feature=relmfu

Besides , I get acne also, they are under control but sometimes appeared before menstrual , my face skin turns a bit yellowish recently. Therefore, I made up my mind, to clean my liver !

Because of stress , I have fatique quite often , and it is getting worse in these 2 years.Depression 2 years ago might be the cause of it , too. As I had some medicine during that time , so I decided to clear them out from my liver as well.

My bro in law , sis and my friend did that , they said it's kinda worth it to do so, they felt so fresh after that.!

What did I do?

Ok , I have read few websites to know more about the procedures. and decided to follow these.

http://curezone.com/cleanse/liver/default.asp 

http://www.earthclinic.com/CURES/gallstones.html

http://www.alternativehealth.co.nz/cancer/liverflush.htm

before flush, 5 days of salad , vegan meal and 5 glasses of organic apple juice or apples everyday! 

2:00 PM.

Do not eat or drink after 2 o'clock. 

6:00 PM.

Drink one cup of water ( 250ml ) with a teaspoon of epsom salt. Use straw to get rid of the bitterness . Have a sip of apple juice/ sweeteners. 

8:00 PM.

Repeat .

9:45 PM.

Pour 1/2 cup (125ml)olive oil and 125ml lemon juice . I drank with straw again , and pinched my nose closed because this was going to be very disgusting .! and I had a small sip of apple juice again to get rid of the scary smell. I suggest drinking with a straw and have nose closed. This helps a lot or else,  you will get to puke at that time or give up. ( alot of my friends gave up because of that)

10:00 PM.

Go to bed and lie down to the right. 

6:00 AM.

third dose of Epsom salt water again . 

2 hours later.

4th dose of epsom salt.

I had no diarrhea at that time , feel very nausea . I then forced myself to toilet , it did flush out something small( rice size) black and dark green . watery . After few hours , I still do not have the feeling to " poo" . Then I went to take one more epsom salt water but I still did not flush out any. I felt quite dissapointed after that.I felt really hungry and I went to have some food . Even though I didnt flush out , I felt very nausea all the time , like burping non stop . 

 On the next morning ( Monday , I started the flush on saturday)  I suddenly had the diarrhea feeling and went to the toilet. I finally flushed out some yellowish brown stones!the sizes are like finger tips size ~! Finally~! I really felt a lot " more" fresh after that . I thought it was a failure but I guess my body is different .it just takes more time. 

Yeah , I did not take epsom salt as they were mentioned in some of the websites( 4 table spoons) , as I heard it will cause death if over dose. Thus, I just based on my friends' experience that they took only few teaspoons. I guess perhaps the epsom salt might not be powerful to me to flush so quickly at once. 

That was a great experience !I will highly recommend people to do it occasionally. As I had some techniques on drinking them and had no problems with it , I think I will do it one more time next year !

"Gratitude"

It's been a long time.

What I have learnt today about ways to happiness, by chance , it was repeated so many times that " gratitude" is the essence of it.

Live the way that you feel grateful , only that you can appreciate and be happy .

I was kind of losing it since the busier life I got recently. That made me so frustrated and I finally decided to go to church for inner peace , because also, by recent , I got many skin rashes problem that made me feeling more annoyed and frustrated more.

I am not a christian , rather a free thinker , so I went to the church seeking for inner peace while my friend asked me along. Indeed, the first lesson I got from them today is “ gratitude" about your life. After the church session, I came back home, turned on my computer, all the youtube available to me is some videos about " gratitude" . That was the time I realised I have been losing for long when I just concentrate too much on my busy life.

Gratitude is the way to happiness.Please be grateful to be yourself.

Trust that everything happens to you is good for you.

The second thing to bring myself to happiness is make only positive affirmations.
Honestly, I never thought it works, but amazingly it really works.
I spent 3 months for just making positive affirmations when I was in depression , and my sis recommended me a book called HEAL your life by Louis L Hay. I read it and understnad the importance and the power of affirmations, yet I rather reluctant to follow it.

I had a hard time in my first semester but because I know I should trust that everything happens to me is good for me , even though my heart or subconcious didn't trust . I forced myself to do things I always believe I could not do. I joined a event organising committee,  I went to an oversea expediion programme, and I went back to home just to swim with my family during school time even though I had to take a flight .for that. I always didnt believe I could have done all these because I never trust I could when I had so many assignments from my course.

I never thought that all these will help me anyway . I did all these because I told myself , whatever decision you made is right for you . You never make wrong decision because you are a thoughtful person , you do things that the body tells you they like it .whatever happens after the decision is also good for you , maybe at that time you think it s bad , it will turn out to be good in future. Indeed, I suffered a lot when I joined the organising committee, but just because of the committee , I got to know more friends, got to get in to stay in hostel which my school is willing to provide me although I do not have enough CCA points .Even now , I have more experience about how to organise an event because I was a head which I always rejected this kinf os responsibility .  OEP helped me to bond stronger relationship with my friends, which I get contact with some Christian activities, and I kind of believe I am not the unluckiest one . I gain confidence after joining all these.

However , all of these require a lot of money . As I am still a student , and also because of my family finiacial problem , I realised that I have no much left . The confidence and the faith made me to believe that I could do something to reduce the burden , I am good enough to love myself, and finally I got a good part time job . The boss is 73 years old , and I really like what he has taught me ... as I just realised appreciation of what you have is the key of life, just like what he did . So whatever happens in your life , think that it is part of the game , part of the interesting drama you cast in . Be happy and be a good person .
At this point , I started to believe I really appreciated what I had been.... and I will continue ...



Quote :

by LOUISE L. HAY

Trust life to hear and respond to your positive words. Say these affirmations every day and your whole world will change for the better